I think everyone pretty much wants the same thing. Someone who is funny, smart, attractive ect. ect. Its just a matter of what those qualities look like personally for you. Some prefer banannas, others prefer strawberries(i'm a strawberry ;p) lol Me, It took awhile to find mine. My first was total chaos, lets just say it ended with him down on his knees, at the greyhound station, with him begging for a 100th more of chance and an email that later said he was going to kill me. The security guards ended up escorting him out of my work a few weeks later and banning him. The one after that, almost perfect, treated me like a princess, but was almost 10 years older than me with 4 children and a psycho ex who stalked and said things about me that arent normal to say lol So I can say by the time i met my, now husband, I did know what I could live with for the rest of my life and I was ready to say steal me away

lol I love him though. Maybe you will have some lucky experiances like me...